Post by Lauryn Hanrahan:
With the March 15th deadline behind us and only twenty-something days of tax season left, WS+B Red Bank held their annual tax season bowling break. A few weeks ago, I received an email and was notified, to my surprise (and slight horror), that I was selected as a bowling captain. The email instructed all captains to recruit a handful of team members and to report back on their selections. Upon reading this, there was a noticeable bustle around the office as people hurried to secure their top picks for recruits. Trades and deals were made, and within the hour, emails were sent to report team rosters, names and team themes.
It turned out that some people chose their teammates without prior approval while others sought out their desired recruit to procure a verbal agreement. This, of course, caused mass chaos as the same person was frequently chosen by two teams, simultaneously. Sour thoughts grew due to the state of confusion, but the situation was remedied by a random draw, leaving everyone with a team of five or six.
Although competition can be healthy, this situation made me realize that sometimes taking something too seriously can drive all of the fun out of it. At first, many of us missed the mark, focusing too much on our teams and not enough on the idea of a fun break with co-workers. After all of the fuss, my randomly selected team was better than I could have wished. They were the perfect mix of people I knew, people I kind of knew and people who I hadn’t had too much experience with. With a little creativity, a good team attitude and two buffalo suits, we ended up winning second place in the theme contest — and had a lot of fun doing it!
My lesson learned for this week is not to sweat the small stuff. It’s understandable that there are situations in life that are stressful, but most things aren’t worthy of giving ourselves wrinkles over. So take a break, organize your thoughts, and when all else fails? Keep calm and…go bowling!
Lauryn




